Nekama?

Here is something I found, while surfing the web for random things lol

http://www.kisc.meiji.ac.jp/~ethicj/asai.pdf

i guess the question is, what CANT you find

the grass is always greener on the other side?

that is quite an interesting study.. it's a thesis? why is it on the net? interesting.. LOL. I had one experience of meeting a "nekama".. in this online community, tinierme.. i used to be active member not too long ago.. i met this person whose "avatar" was cross-dressed.. and i only found out he was a guy when i added him on ym.. which is, he was actually straight, and i thought he was not.. and yeah, so maybe i lost trust.. cuz i asked, 'why teh heck were you pretending to be a girl?' where did u get it, Sou-sama? it's quite.. uhmm.. i dunno.. controversial?

lol i ran across this word in a manga and someone mentioned it in the mmo i was playing so i googled it eventually and found this

LOL. i did say it was interesting.. but it's kinda weird..
i agree with Excellence-sama.. the question is "what can't you find?"